As a 3 Principles Practitioner, I serve as a guide to help point you back home to who you truly are at your essence, which is Innate Wellbeing and Healthy Psychological Functioning.
Through a series of Conversations, you will experience Insights which will give you a different perspective on how life really works. This new way of Seeing will enable you to gain a greater sense of Clarity, Balance, Peace, and Love in your life, regardless of your external circumstances.
There are no tools, tricks or skills to implement. No mantras or meditations required. Just a simple understanding of how our experience of life is created from the Inside Out, not the Outside In.
relationship and divorce Coach
THE WAY OUT
OF CODEPENDENCY & NARCISSISTIC ABUSE
A 6-week program for those who long for healthy, loving & respectful relationships in both their personal & professional lives.
IS THIS YOU?
You’re smart and successful in your career - but when it comes to relationships you just can’t seem to get it right. You’re loving, kind, and considerate, and you're always there for others, and yet you keep attracting dysfunctional relationships in both your personal and professional relationships.
You find yourself wondering, what's going on? Why do people mistreat me? Why do they use me? Why don't they respect me?
Learning how to create healthy relationships is one of the most important skills you can learn - for sure, it will impact and empower every area of your life. And that journey begins with the most important relationship – the one you have with yourself.
WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS PROGRAM
In this 6-week program, I’m going to give you the tools to do just that – love and respect yourself in a way you never have before. And in doing so, you're going to experience a radical shift in how others relate to you.
You’re going to discover that radical self-love is the gateway to attracting the loving and respectful relationships you’ve been longing for both personally and professionally.
You will also come away with a greater awareness of the people who show up in your life - why you attract narcissists and dysfunctional people- people whom you should avoid. This program is going to finally open the doors to the love and respect you deserve and a whole new life of attracting people who are loving, nurturing, and respectful.
CAN YOU RELATE TO ANY OF THESE?
You say yes to people and things when you really mean no - you lack healthy boundaries.
You tolerate breadcrumbs in your relationships - always settling for second-best.
You're a people-pleaser. You’re never able to speak your mind – always putting the needs of others ahead of your own.
You avoid conflict and confrontations out of fear, and you find yourself walking on eggshells in your relationships.
You sacrifice your own wants and needs to please others.
You have trouble asking for what you want.
You are unable to make a decision of whether to stay or go in your relationship.
You put up with and attract bullies, users, takers, and narcissists.
You feel as if your wounded inner child is running the show from behind the scenes.
If you can identify with any of these traits, then this program is for you.
WHAT IS COVERED IN THIS PROGRAM
Week 1 - Introduction - what changed everything for me? In our first week, I'm going to introduce you to The 3 Principles - a deep and profound understanding of how we humans create our reality. You'll hear my story of how coming across this understanding was pivotal in helping me gain clarity, confidence, and the freedom to love myself and go on to attract an amazing relationship.
Week 2 - What is Codependency? We’ll look at what it means to be codependent, the causes, and how to break free of codependent thinking and behavior. We’ll identify the myriad of ways in which codependency shows up in all areas of our life, both in our relationships and our careers.
Week 3 - What is Narcissism? How do you know you're living with one? You're going to learn how to be on alert for the red flags of narcissistic behavior and how to protect yourself.
Week 4 - Identifying Narcissistic Relationships. We’ll discuss the dynamics and variety of a narcissistic relationship, from love bombing, gaslighting, walking on eggshells, trauma bonding, narcissistic dance, flying monkeys, and a lot more!
Week 5 - Should I Stay, or Should I Leave? There’s no judgment; it’s entirely a personal decision. Not everyone chooses to leave their narcissistic relationship. Whether you decide to stay or go, I’ll share essential tips on how to navigate some of the harmful effects of interacting with the narcissist in your life.
Week 6 - Creating Happy & Healthy Relationships: We get to flesh out what it takes to create rich and rewarding relationships both personally and professionally.
THIS PROGRAM IS GOING TO BE ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT WORK YOU WILL EVER DO.
DATE AND TIME OF THIS PROGRAM
Saturday, March 18th, 2023
10 am PST - 6 pm GMT
Each class is one hour long - you will join via Zoom - if you can't join live, there will be a recording - this recording will only be available to program attendees.
What to Expect after this Program - you will learn how to...
Speak up and express your point of view.
Create healthy boundaries between yourself and others.
Honor your own needs when dealing with others.
Trust your own intuition when someone isn't treating you respectfully.
Ask for what you want.
Feel energized by your relationships instead of drained.
Know your worth and that you are worthy of love and respect.
Break free of people-pleasing.
Choose better people to be in your life.
Love and respect yourself unconditionally.
WHO IS TEACHING THIS PROGRAM
Del Adey Jones lived through decades of codependency and unhealthy narcissistic relationships. She now teaches others how to find the way out of codependency and narcissistic abuse.
Del is a 3 Principles Practitioner, Soul Centered Coach & Mentor. She has a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and has trained at the Debbie Ford Institute - with training in Transformational Coaching & Relationship and Divorce Coaching.
Thanks to her unconventional childhood and personal challenges including divorce and raising children as a single parent, her work is informed by her real-life experience and deeper studies of Spirituality and Psychology.
Using her down-to-earth, relatable approach to coaching and her commitment to creating a safe space to explore the Inside Out Understanding, she serves a wide range of clients worldwide.
At the time I took Del's program, I had been deeply struggling through a 3-year relationship with a narcissist and I couldn’t get control over my life.
Del has such an incredible amount of knowledge and life experience, and I learned more from her about the dynamic I was trapped in and what was really happening to me.
What had the most impact on me was how she shared her own personal stories. She showed such understanding and compassion. She is one courageous, resilient, and strong woman.
Del never judged my thoughts or feelings and always helped me find answers and solutions. She met me where I was every time and just kept walking with me until I was able to take steps on my own.
Del has been a critical part of my healing. If it weren’t for her I would still be struggling in a relationship that was crippling me and my life.
Having had a less-than-orthodox childhood, and a father that was absent, I grew up with abandonment issues and often chose men that were exactly like my father - narcissistic and unavailable. I was constantly trying to be ‘who they wanted me to be’ to win their love and approval. I finally was able to break this cycle with the help of the amazing workshop I took with Del Adey-Jones on narcissistic and co-dependent relationships.
Del is extremely knowledgeable in this area and creates a safe space to move past these issues without judgment or criticism. The course is thorough and completely enlightening! I learned so much. She allows time for questions and interaction, also sharing literature and her own experiences in a calm and loving manner. I highly recommend this course to anyone wishing to break free of the cycle of choosing narcissistic partners, interacting with narcissistic friends or family members, and for those wishing to become their authentic selves in all their relationships moving forward. The course was invaluable to me.
I started to look into the 3 Principles teachings when I was struggling with anxiety. This led me to question various matters in my life, one of these being my relationship. I knew that in the 3 Principle teachings, we are told that 'Thought' creates all our experiences. I was struggling with this, as I was in a relationship that felt abusive, and having compassion for everyone in the situation wasn't helping.
I heard that Del specialized in both the 3 Principles and Narcissistic relationships, so I was very interested in what her take would be. I got in touch, and straight away, Everything she said seemed to make perfect sense. Del is so open and non-judgmental, and she has an understanding that is so clear, I instantly felt less alone and stuck.
The biggest thing I took away from the program was that it was ok to feel stuck, confused, and not know what to do. Trusting that our wisdom will guide us if we allow our mind to quieten.
The thing I most liked about the program was the understanding and non-judgment that this could happen to anyone, and we can all become stuck and get ourselves into bad situations, but it doesn't mean we are damaged or must stay there. We have choices. Thank you, Del.